New York, Nov. 23, 2015 – Holiday driving can cause more than road rage – it can wreak havoc on relationships. Whether stuck in Thanksgiving traffic or riding for hours with the in-laws, the “most wonderful time of the year” has serious potential to turn family fun into family feud.
Last Thanksgiving, AAA predicted 46.3 million Americans traveled more than 50 miles from home – the greatest distance in nearly a decade. Now, with drivers enjoying the lowest gas prices in five years, AAA estimates 90 percent of Americans will celebrate the holidays this year with a road trip. But fear not – avoiding common road frustrations is often as simple as minding your manners, even before you arrive at Grandmother’s house for dinner.
To help ease the stress of holiday travel, Ford Motor Company and The Emily Post Institute are working together to offer you a better road trip experience. As the great-great-grandson of America’s foremost etiquette expert Emily Post, Daniel Post Senning shares how simple car courtesies can make travel more enjoyable for driver and passengers alike. From polite passenger protocol to considerate use of new vehicle technologies, these easy “drive-by” tips will have families singing fa-la-la-la-la in harmony this season.
Holiday Travel Etiquette Tips
First and foremost, drivers are hosts. You wouldn’t invite family and friends to your home without planning for their comfort and entertainment, so why get behind the wheel without thinking through the drive? With these tips in mind, modern-day drivers are sure to experience comfortable and enjoyable travel.
- Chivalry’s not dead… it just looks different nowadays.
Holding the door for someone will never go out of style, but with
automated keyless entry and remote start, modern protocol can prove
puzzling. Today, driver chivalry means unlocking the door before Aunt
Ethel even tries to open it, or getting the heat (and even the heated
seats) going before Grandma buckles up for a chilly trip to Christmas
- Let the grand tour begin. Your passengers may not be all
that familiar with your ride. Put them at ease; give them a tour to help
them feel more at home. Just like you would show a guest at your home
where the restroom and kitchen are located, let passengers know about
the controls they have for entertainment systems, seats and windows.
Identify power sources for phones and electronics, like the
smart-charging USB ports in the rear of the vehicle that provide easy
access. Make sure all of your passengers have what they need before your
- Content beats boredom. When stuck in dreaded Thanksgiving
traffic, a little preparation goes a long way toward preventing boredom.
Before hopping behind the wheel, curate your upcoming road trip with
podcasts, audiobooks, TED Talks – even online classes. Traveling
with pals to your annual Friendsgiving gathering? Build a Spotify
playlist from your senior year, suggest a series, or learn something
about your destination together. With in-car entertainment and
communication systems like Ford SYNC 3, it’s easier than ever to bring a
world of content along for the ride.
- If the driver is host, the passenger is honored guest. You
wouldn’t show up to your Chanukah host’s home empty-handed, so don’t
forget the same courtesy for your driver. To thank him or her for
bearing the stress of high-pressure holiday driving, lighten the load by
taking on some responsibilities of your own. Offer to help pay for gas,
fetch snacks and drinks, and pack the car with suitcases and holiday
- To Grandmother’s house we go. Traveling with family? Avoid
the stress of incessant “Are we there yet?” conversations by building
an itinerary and communicating your plans. Talk about stops for food and
restroom breaks so everyone knows what to expect. Kids can follow
along, track progress, anticipate their favorite spots – even figure out
arrival times on their own. With easy-to-use navigation provided by
Ford SYNC 3, you can determine the quickest route, locate
family-friendly pit stops along the way, and plug in your itinerary in
advance to keep the trip on track.
- Don’t play the passive passenger. If you’re lucky enough
to be sitting in the front passenger seat on a long journey, assist your
driver through helpful communication. Be sure to stay alert and keep an
eye out for road signs. (Do try to refrain from refreshing your
Instagram feed every five seconds.) Above all, avoid all comments on how your chauffeur is driving – no one likes a back seat driver, especially when road conditions turn stressful!
- Chat with Mimi more than Siri. Voice activation puts a
whole world of information at your command from the driver’s seat,
whether locating the next rest stop or calling Grandpa hands-free to let
him know you’re just up the road. With today’s voice recognition
clearer than ever, people aren’t just naming their cars – they’re
talking to them! Just be sure you talk to your real passengers at least as much as you communicate with your car’s infotainment system.
- Control distractions. Ford studies show Americans are
conflicted on in-car entertainment – while three in five drivers think
passengers should weigh in, just as many say the one behind the wheel
should have the final say when it comes to entertainment. We all want to
hear our favorite karaoke number on a long road trip, but a distracted
driver is a safety hazard. As a polite passenger, defer to your
chauffeur and offer to play DJ or navigate the control screen to make
her job easier. If the kids in the back have their own entertainment
setup, make sure they keep “Christmas Vacation” at a noise level that
doesn’t surpass the cue to “Turn right in 300 feet.”
- Connectivity caution. When traveling through remote areas on the way to your holiday celebration, you might – gasp –
lose cell reception. Know your car’s navigation system capabilities, do
a brief review of the major roads you’ll be traveling ahead of time,
and keep actual maps in the car – ensuring you have a backup plan
if connectivity goes out. Download a GB or two of your favorite music
to help get through those pesky “no streaming available” zones, keeping
passengers calm, cool and collected – no matter what the journey brings.
- Diffuse tension in a tight space. We’re all familiar with
the drama that can ensue when hitting the road for the holidays. From
arguments over the middle seat to debates over the radio station, tight
quarters can lead to curt conversation. To diffuse tension, call on
in-car features to lighten the mood. From massaging seats, to a literal
change of tune on the radio, your car’s systems can help ensure the
continued comfort of your passenger-guests.
- Support existing safety systems. Battling the tryptophan
haze after a big Thanksgiving dinner? Remember, the temptation to fall
asleep on the way home affects both driver and passenger. If you’ve been
spared the role of designated driver this holiday season and are riding
comfortably in the passenger seat, don’t begin to snooze as soon as the
heated seats kick in – stay alert and talk with your driver. Smart
driver-assist features like Ford’s lane-keeping aid are incredibly
helpful tools, but extra eyes on the road never hurt!
- Be kind, respect the lines. We all know not to fight over
precious parking spaces, but it goes further than that. In a crowded
parking lot on Christmas Eve, no one likes the Grinch who straddles two
spots. Selfish behavior is never in style, but careless parking is
especially frowned upon during the season of giving. Show respect to
other drivers by staying between the lines – and if you’re not a master
manipulator in reverse, no one has to know! Let advanced, semi-automated
technologies like active park assist with perpendicular park and
park-out assist help you squeeze in and out of that tight spot.